Author

Manja Liehr

published on

13.04.2025

On May 10, 2025, we will gather ...

On May 10, 2025, we will gather as a hundred thousand mothers in front of the Brandenburg Gate to send a clear signal: for visibility, for justice and, above all, for an end to the political invisibility of mothers, daughters and grandmothers.
Whether migrant, queer, black, disabled, whether FLINTA* people with care responsibilities, working-class moms, single parents, mothers of choice, biological or emotional mothers - we all count because there is more that unites us than divides us: the systemically relevant but systematically ignored care work, the sell-out of education, time and self-determination, the overexploitation of female autonomy under the guise of normality.
Prof. Dr. h.c. Jutta Allmendinger has made it clear: we are experiencing a re-traditionalization of gender roles - not just since the pandemic, but as a permanent political omission.

And because self-determination is not a national issue, but a global struggle, the artist Faravaz Farvardin brings it to the stage with every note of her voice - her voice, once banned in the Iranian underground, will be audible to all at the Brandenburg Gate.

The fact that mothers with a history of migration are always considered "unable to integrate" when they are deemed "unable to perform" is no coincidence - it is politically intentional. It doesn't matter how many decades they have helped, nurtured and supported this country. In a system that values people according to their ability to work, care loses its social value. Time remains a luxury - but only for those who can buy help. "Domestic services" - a euphemism for the capitalist exploitation of women's time.
Like a phoenix, mothers are capable of so much - just like Serpil Unvar. Even in what was certainly the greatest struggle of her life, after the loss of her son Ferhat, she created a memorial from the ashes: the education initiative that bears his name - for justice, against racism, for equality for all people through education.
She is not just her wife - she is her mother.

On this day, we will embark on a programmatic journey through the phases of life that affect us all - and through which mothers accompany us: from birth through childhood, adolescence and adulthood to old age.

Mothers are often invisible, too often overburdened and overheard, and yet - day after day - they carry this society: organizing with their heads, caring with their hands, fighting for a better world with their hearts and minds. These phases will be made audible and visible on May 10 - in speeches, in sounds, in performances and discussions.
Included are voices and sounds that move, remind and rouse:
- Faravaz Farvardin - she raises her voice, which is banned in Iran - at the Brandenburg Gate for all to hear.
- Shereen Adam & Lavon - they open up the space for a new, feminist sound language. More is yet to be revealed.
- Claude De Demo in conversation with Prof.in Dr. h.c. Jutta Allmendinger - "Theater or reality?": a stage moment inspired by Mareike Fallwickl's play Und alle so still, in which art and analysis, emotion and system criticism intertwine.
- Serpil Unvar - as a voice of remembrance and the future, as a mother, activist and encourager.
We make the structural crisis in childcare visible.
We dismantle the fairy tale of freedom of choice where there are no real options.
We expose the hypocrisy of a system that needs labor migration but wants to deport people after decades - because they "can no longer perform".
We demand self-determination - in paragraph 218, in education, in care. As a human right.
Migration is not the mother of all problems - it is the social and legal framework conditions that turn people into problems, cement inequality and prevent participation.
These are questions that concern us all and perspectives that interweave to form a picture: Motherhood in all its forms - as biography, as responsibility, as a political place, as a shared heritage and a shared future.
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