Relatives of children with disabilities, especially those with intensive support needs, often spend their entire lives caring for them. Reconciling care, school and work is often only possible with part-time work. This affects mothers in particular, who later have to struggle with lower pension and care contributions. The framework conditions should therefore be improved, e.g. by introducing a wage replacement benefit, improved recognition of care periods in retirement and care or the introduction of low-threshold relief services, which would then also benefit people with disabilities.